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History


The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend was founded by Dr. Mark Schillinger in 2000. Mark was inspired by Brad Leslie who started a weekend mentoring program for young men in Vancouver, Canada in 1990. Mark took his son to this program and when he returned he knew he needed help raising his son as a single-parent. He put out a call for help in the Bay Area and with the commitment and cooperation of dozens of caring mothers, fathers, and mentors, the YMUW 501(c)3 Public Benefit Corporation was established.
At our first Young Men's Ultimate Weekend in Fairfax California, over 200 young men showed up to receive their initiation. Expecting possibly a few dozen young men, that experience turned out to be an initiation for the board members and their volunteer mentors as well! Since that event, YMUW initiations have been held in Seattle, Portland, Sacramento, Sonoma, San Jose, Los Angeles and San Diego.

Since we first began, we have expanded our programs to help parents, mentors, teachers and therapists be more effective in their relationships with young men. By presenting in-house workshops to other family service agences, producing public workshops or providing private family coaching, we are fulfilling our mission of helping young men and adults have more respectful and cooperative relationships. We would like to give a special thanks to the Adizes Institute for their expert guidance in organizational development.



Board Members


The board members of the South Bay and North Bay meet regularly to oversee the quality control of its programs and make policies regarding fundraising efforts, volunteer recruitment, legal issues, and strategic planning.

Women and men of all racial, ethnic and social classes are welcome to serve on our Board of Directors. We ask that all prospective Board members be willing to make a commitment to provide leadership within our committees and contribute to an environment of mutual trust and respect to achieve our Mission.

North Bay Board Members

Dave Bohegian - President of YMUW North Bay
Co-owner and founder of Martorana Bohegian & Company, a commercial real estate consulting firm. Extensive involvement in Marin youth sports including coaching Girls Soccer, Boys Soccer, Little League Baseball, and assistant coach for Tamalpais High School Tennis (Girls and Boys). Past member, San Rafael School District Facilities Advisory Committee.

Brendan Byrd, Member of YMUW North Bay
Entrepreneur and small business owner, Brendan has extensive experience working with youth including tutoring with WITSChicago.org (Working in the Schools), mentoring with ROCKSF.org (Real Options for City Kids) and coaching YMCA basketball and football. He is dedicated to helping young people realize they posses the keys to their own futures.

David Downey, Secretary of YMUW North Bay

President of David Downey Construction, a residential remodeling and green building construction company, David is a co-instructor at Redwood High School teaching students and adults the basics of construction technology. David has two adult children, four grandchildren, and lives in Santa Rosa.

Alan Cooney, Member of YMUW North Bay
Certified as a YMUW Mentor through YMUW's Ultiate Mentor Training, Alan has been a mentor and has served in various production roles at many YMUW events. He has been involved with men's teams for more than a decade. He is an Advanced SCUBA diver, private pilot and Director of Electrical Engineering at Ekso Bionics, building exoskeletons that augment human mobility and capability.

Peter Gradjansky, Member of YMUW North Bay
Peter Gradjansky is a landscape architect and contractor, who designs and builds gardens. He lives in Berkeley with his architect wife, Laura, his twenty-year-old daughter, Hannah, and his sixteen-year-old son, Ivan. Ivan is a two-time graduate of teh young men's weekend, and now, since the age of 14, a valued member of our weekend production team. So how could Peter not want to help bring this work to more young men?

Dr. Mark Schillinger, Executive Director and Co-founder of YMUW
Original board member of the non-profit, Performing Stars of Marin, creator of the Give Thanks Dance Party (benefit for the Marin Community Food Bank) and founder of the YMUW. Mark has 2 grown children and has been a chiropractic physician for 27 years in San Rafael, Ca

Greg Schweider, Treasurer of YMUW North Bay
Volunteers as Treasurer at Resolve of Northern California and participated in the YMCA Mentor Program. Greg is married and is a consultant and CPA of 13 years, and was CFO of two successful hedge funds.

Steven Smulewitz, Cofounder of YMUW
Involved with men's teams, mentoring young men and volunteering at various community service projects since 1999. Steven is married, has a daughter and twin sons, and is a staff accountant at the Boy Scouts of America.


South Bay Board Members

Greg Benton, Secretary and cofounder of YMUW of the South Bay
Involved with men's teams, mentoring young men and volunteering at various community service projects since 1992. Greg is married with an adult daughter and is a licensed architect practicing in the Bay Area since 1983.

Bill Dameron, President and cofounder of YMUW of the South Bay
Volunteer for Monterey Bay Salmon and Trout Project and Men's Divisions International. Bill is married with a daughter and is a Senior Process Development Associate with the Genitope Corporation, a Biotech firm dedicated to producing innovative therapies for cancers of the immune system.


Jim Herrera, Member of YMUW of the South Bay
Jim is an entrepreneur whose business passion is to develop teams that provide leadership guidance to assist small businesses in realizing their full potential. He is president of the National Hispanic Organization of Real Estate Associates. He also has been a Youth Pastor at Communities of Hope, in San Jose..

Brian Hunter, cofounder of YMUW of the South Bay

Volunteer for Big Brothers Big Sisters, Santa Clara County Juvenile Probation Restorative Justice Program, Parental/Teen Stress Hotline and City of Palo Alto - Family Resources - Mental Health Counseling. Brian is married with two stepchildren. Brian has 2 degrees: BA in Industrial Organizational Psychology and a MA in Marriage and Family Counseling.


Michael Putnam, Member of YMUW of the South Bay
Has worked with many local nonprofit organizations including Habitat for Humanity, The Role Model Program, City Team Ministries and United Way. Owner of a promotional marketing and printing company in the Bay Area, Michael has worked extensively with youth camps through CCUSA both in Australia and the US and has been a volunteer with the YMUW since 2005.


Media

Our services and events have been featured throughout the media. Each piece has practical information, inspiring stories or inviting images about our experiences with young men and their families.


Published Works


Boys Become Men in a Weekend at Walker Creek, Pt Reyes Lighthouse

NEWS | Young Men's Ultimate Weekend, www.bohemian.com

Mentor Project Helps Troubled Boys Grow Up, Marin Independant Journal

Why Young Men Are Suffering and What We Can Do about It, Newsletter of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists

Young Men Are Good & Ready, Common Ground Magazine

How to Support Young Men in Their Spiritual Development, Awareness Magazine

How Mentors Help Parents, Family Works Magazine

Teen Boys Earn 'Ultimate' Rites of Passage, News Pointer

What Makes A Man, San Jose Mercury News

The Need for Male Initiation, Common Ground Magazine

Women Can Inspire Men to Return to Yoga, Common Ground Magaine

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YMUW stands ready to serve the needs of young men, their families and our communities. You can contact us in a number of ways. Feel free to call us using our toll free number, send us mail through the post, or send an email to one of our office.

 
YMUW - NORTH BAY
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San Rafael, CA 94903
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14275 Branham Lane
San Jose, CA 95124
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(800) 719-9302
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