"Thank you for the awesome weekend my son had up the Boulder Creek initiation. I thought the first program he attended was amazing, but this one really put a lot of struggles behind him (and need to). You've all proving once again that actually does take a village. I and many other parents are very grateful that you are there for these young men and us. Thank you!"

- JG, parent of YMUW graduate


































































































"Everything I do revolves around the values that I gained from the YMUW. Now it is a way of life for me. It has given me a purpose. Today my life is about what I can do for others. Since my Weekend, I have helped produce six Young Men's Ultimate Weekends. I also mentor young men on a daily basis. I am making sure that we, as a society, don't forget about young men."

- Nick B., YMUW graduate

















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History


The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend was founded by Dr. Mark Schillinger in 2000. Mark was inspired by Brad Leslie who started a weekend mentoring program for young men in Vancouver, Canada in 1990. Mark took his son to this program and when he returned he knew he needed help raising his son as a single-parent. He put out a call for help in the Bay Area and with the commitment and cooperation of dozens of caring mothers, fathers, and mentors, the YMUW 501(c)3 Public Benefit Corporation was established.

At our first Young Men's Ultimate Weekend in Fairfax California, over 200 young men showed up to receive their initiation. Expecting possibly a few dozen young men, that experience turned out to be an initiation for the board members and their volunteer mentors as well! Since that event, YMUW initiations have been held in Seattle, Portland, Sacramento, Sonoma, San Jose, Los Angeles and San Diego.

Over the years YMUW has helped other organizations who've been in need of our services. The following is a partial list of places where our efforts were used: Pine Ridge Indian Reservation (South Dakota), Marin Women's Hall of Fame, California Youth Authority, Glide Memorial Church and
Operation Elf.

To realize our goal of spreading YMUW throughout the country, we added our first affiliate, YMUW of
South Bay in November, 2006. IN 2012 YMUW was one of 25 organizations selected to participate in
the first international Rite of Passage Council.


Board Members


The board members of the South Bay and North Bay meet regularly to oversee the quality control of its programs and make policies regarding fundraising efforts, volunteer recruitment, legal issues, and strategic planning.

Women and men of all racial, ethnic and social classes are welcome to serve on our Board of Directors. We ask that all prospective Board members be willing to make a commitment to provide leadership within our committees and contribute to an environment of mutual trust and respect to achieve our Mission.

Dave Bohegian - President
Co-owner and founder of Martorana Bohegian & Company, a commercial real estate consulting firm. Extensive involvement in Marin youth sports including coaching Girls Soccer, Boys Soccer, Little League Baseball, and assistant coach for Tamalpais High School Tennis (Girls and Boys). Past member, San Rafael School District Facilities Advisory Committee.

Brendan Byrd
Entrepreneur and small business owner, Brendan has extensive experience working with youth including tutoring with WITSChicago.org (Working in the Schools), mentoring with ROCKSF.org (Real Options for City Kids) and coaching YMCA basketball and football. He is dedicated to helping young people realize they posses the keys to their own futures.

Jessica Baker
Co-Founder of The Respect Institute, whose mission is to give youth tools to become more self respectful and thrive. She's led youth oriented programs nationally and internationally and has taught programs for the National Charity League, American Association of University Women, Planned Parenthood, YPO-WPO and at universities.

Dr. Mark Schillinger, Co-founder
Dr. Mark Schillinger, DC specializes in male adolescence and family unity, serving as a parent coach and youth mentor . He's the co-founder of YMUW and creator of Challenging Teen Age Sons, which educates parents how to direct their sons to become more independent. He teaches the Ultimate Parenting Weekend which show parents and their sons how to develop more cooperative / collaborative relationships

Greg Schweider
Volunteers as Treasurer at Resolve of Northern California and participated in the YMCA Mentor Program. Greg is married and is a consultant and CPA of 13 years, and was CFO of two successful hedge funds.

Steven Smulewitz, Co-founder
Involved with men's teams, mentoring young men and volunteering at various community service projects since 1999. Steven is married, has a daughter and twin sons, and is a staff accountant at the Boy Scouts of America.

Brian Hunter
Volunteer for Big Brothers Big Sisters, Santa Clara County Juvenile Probation Restorative Justice Program, Parental/Teen Stress Hotline and City of Palo Alto - Family Resources - Mental Health Counseling. Brian is married with two stepchildren. Brian has 2 degrees: BA in Industrial Organizational Psychology and a MA in Marriage and Family Counseling.


Michael Putnam
Has worked with many local nonprofit organizations including Habitat for Humanity, The Role Model Program, City Team Ministries and United Way. Owner of a promotional marketing and printing company in the Bay Area, Michael has worked extensively with youth camps through CCUSA both in Australia and the US and has been a volunteer with the YMUW since 2005.


Media


Our services and events have been featured throughout the media. Each piece has practical information, inspiring stories or inviting images about our experiences with young men and their families.

Video
Enjoy the 5 minute video clip of the Weekend produced by our volunteer, Navyo Ericson, with original music by our volunteer, Steve Fox.



Published Work

November 1, 2007
Boys become men in a weekend at Walker Creek, Pt Reyes Lighthouse

October 17, 2007
NEWS | Young Men's Ultimate Weekend, www.bohemian.com

October 8, 2007
Mentor project helps troubled boys grow up, Marin Independant Journal

Why Young Men Are Suffering and What We Can Do about It, Newsletter of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapist

Young Men Are Good & Ready, Common Ground Magazine

How to Support Young Men in Their Spiritual Development, Awareness Magazine

How Mentors Help Parents, Apple Parent Magazine

November 25, 2003
Teen boys earn 'ultimate' rites of passage, News Pointer

What Makes A Man, San Jose Mercury News

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